I think if you took an x-ray of my whole being, I’m pretty sure you’d see forty different wars going on all dealing with our trying to conceive a baby. So many questions and so many uncertainty…but one that sticks out more than most. Medicine vs. Faith. So many people that I’ve talked to have done away with all forms of medicine and fully given God and nature control of their battle…but on the other hand, so many have found their beautiful, healthy babies by utilizing the wonders of medicine.
I battle with this. Sometimes, I feel like God is guiding me to the right doctors, but sometimes I feel guilty for not leaving it up to fate. I’m so very torn. Does using medicine make my faith in God weak? Or am I listening to what He’s saying to guide me to the family we’re meant to have?
To this point, I’ve not felt badly. I’ve learned much more about myself and during all of these challenges, my faith has been rocked to the core. I’ve gone to Him more now than ever, and I feel closer to Him as a result. I’ve become kinder and I’ve found I have more patience.His guidance has lead me to take better care of myself and learn that I have PCOS. I appreciate more and value things that I didn’t as much.
People have said that I just need to listen and hear where He is leading me, but I’m not hearing anything no matter how hard I try!
Others have had things come to them in a dream. Others have had strangers say off-handed comments that have helped them decide on their paths. Some open fortune cookies. Some rub a magic eight ball.
WHAT do I have to DO to get an ANSWER?!? I’m not asking for one way or another, I just want to know where to go or a sign to know I need to stay right where I am..
I don’t know where to go from here
It all used to seem so clear
I’m finding I can’t do this on my own
I don’t know where to go from here
As alone as I know that You are near
I’m done fighting, I’m finally letting go
I will trust in You
You’ve never failed before
I will trust in You
If there’s a road I should walk
Help me find it
If I need to be still
Give me peace for the moment
Whatever Your will
Whatever Your will
Can you help me find it?
Can you help me find it?